I absolutely DETEST how people say "gay" and "lesbian" in a manner that insinuates we're an entirely different species or something, something completely apart from the human race. It's disturbing. Trust me people, gay, lesbians, bisexuals and transgenders are NOT any different from you heterosexuals. We go through the same exact hardships. We are not martians. Just because I prefer girls over guys does not mean we won't have anything in common. All of my friends are straight. Yes, that's right: ALL. Yes, I have gay and lesbian acquaintances but I mean, yes it would be really nice to have someone I'm truly close to who is the same sexual orientation as me, but I mean, it's cool. One of my friends is bicurious so she can definitely relate to me...she's had crushes on girls in the past. She definitely prefers men, and is with a guy now, but it doesn't matter to me. She can relate on some level. And that makes me feel SO much better. However, what it boils down to is that it doesn't matter ONE BIT to me. Namely because all of my friends are ENTIRELY accepting. Some may not UNDERSTAND fully but that's okay, I mean I've never been with a girl before...when I do (if?!) I date someone hopefully in the NEAR future, they will be obscenely supportive and be cheering me on, no doubt about it! Then they will get it. They will realize that I am the STRAIGHTEST LESBIAN THEY WILL EVER MET.
I am though! I love to talk about guys that my friends are interested in with them, for starters. Weird? No just empathetic I like to think! =)
I will always give them boy advice as well. I mean, they're probably very skeptical when it comes to ME giving advice on that subject, but it's okay, I guess I primarily do it because a) I want to help and b) I have an opinion about EVERYTHING. Even things I know nothing about. But I mean, I feel like I'm a good judge of character and I firmly believe guys are very uncomplicated. They are not hard to figure out. Girls, on the other hand...